Should you tell the other persons partner that they cheated on them with your partner?

It's natural to want to seek revenge on the people who had the affair. However, you should proceed with caution before disclosing this affair to the other betrayed party; you have no idea what their reaction will be, or if there is the potential for you to be mixed up in an angry scene or even possible violence. If you do decide to disclose, disclose from a safe distance---by phone, email--and take the time to take a few deep breaths and subdue any anger or vengeance in your thoughts before you disclose. Simply state the facts and the evidence you have and do not comment on your own feelings or have any discussion about your relationship to this person. The last thing you want---or should--do is disclose in the heat of anger.