Was judith orr married to Benjamin orr?

Yes, there is some evidence that they were briefly married. We know that Benjamin (Ben) Orr of the rock group the Cars was first married to his childhood sweetheart, Kristina, but they were divorced in 1981. He dated and was said to be engaged to Diana Grey Page in the mid-to-late 1980s. After they broke up, that was when he married Judith Silverman, a Hollywood makeup artist (she worked on such TV series as Star Trek: Deep Space Nine). They married circa 1990, but their marriage does not seem to have lasted very long, and it also ended in divorce. Ben was engaged to Julie Snider at the time of his death in 2000 in Atlanta, Georgia.