In harvest moon cute how do you get marmalade in the middle of winter when you dont have any cooking supplies or oranges i need it for the mayor by 5pm?

Unfortunately you can't get it to him. You would have had to have it on hand. You can always wait until next year (when you have a kitchen, etc); though he may change the item he's looking for. When you CAN supply him with what he's asking for you will receive a piece of golden lumber and will unlock the lumber team leader Sprite. Don't worry! You'll have plenty more chances! (They'll just be a year apart)