What are the differences between Victor Frankenstein and the monster in Mary Shelly's Frankenstein?

Victor grew up with a loving family who cared for him while the monster was deserted by victor to fight for himself, victor acts as more of monster than the creation, the monster is self educated/learned from watching DeLacey's (p 99 "My days were spent in close attention, that I might more speedily master the language…") and Victor was taught in school (p 28 "When I had attained the age of seventeen my parents resolved that I should become a student at the university of Ingolstadt"), Victor loved and was loved but the monster never experienced anything but societies hatred toward him.