What should a woman do if she feels she is not charismatic enough?

It would not be unusual to think of a woman as not being attractive enough, but when one understands the Word charismatic one must include other attractions. Charismatic means " Possessing an extraordinary ability to attract". So we ask ourselves to be attracted to what? Her beautiful face, her fine slim figure or maybe it is her intellect. Perhaps the ability to attract an audience by her attention demanding lecture. Her beautiful singing voice. All of these may be charismatic in their own way, but what about her kind ways, her love of children, sacrificing her time and talents to help the poor and needy , are not these services an ability to attract, are they not charismatic attributes worth seeking for?

After knowing many women in my life I have to say that not one has been without some charismatic feature. May I add (With tongue in cheek), what it the point of have a charismatic beauty if one is as thick as a brick?