Can a 9 year old date a 9 year old lesbian?

9yo don't really date, they hang out more like friends. And most of them are not interested in a romantic way so the 9yo who feels that she is a lesbian might be disappointed. Most kids don't know whether they are straight, bi or gay at the age of 9 but some do. Whether you are allowed to hang out our not is up to your parents, the same way you need their permission to see your friends.