Is it I'm laying down or I'm lying down?

It's "I'm lying down." You lie down, you lay something on the table. Lay means to place something down; in other Words, it's something you do to something else (as in to lay the blanket on the couch). Lie means to recline or be placed; it is an intransitive verb, because it does not act upon anything or anyone else.

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