When was democracy created?

Democracy, stictly speaking, is an idealistic state. It does not exist & never will. It is unachievable. Yes, I accept that I have a vote in all sorts of elections. And just who decides who I am able to vote for ? & do they represent me ? Do they ** !!! The problem is that no matter who you vote for the government get elected. Putting it simply the problem is that if the vote is 49% vs 51% then the 49% should accept the decision. Breath holding at this point is not reccomended.