How can you tell if the guy you like is flirting with you?

== == Let's see there are many many signs. You can tell he's playing you if 1. He doesn't spend really any time with you always making excuses. A guy that's really into will love spending time with you of course. 2. He doesn't seem to care about anything your interested in. 3. He has a bad reputation, and he doesn't like taking you out will there be a lot of other women around or anyone else. 4. He keeps disappearing on you making other plans, doesn't seem interested in you that much, can't look you in the eyes, or refuses to look you in the eyes. Always looking at everything but you, especially when you ask where he's been. You know he's not leading you on if he's almost always with you or trying to be with you whenever possible. If he treats you with respect opens doors for you, and stuff. Respects your likes and dislikes, and if you don't want to do something he's OK with it. He never pressures you, and he would do just about anything to make you happy or comfortable. If you argue he never calls you out of your name or any other time things are bad. Hope that helps! When a guy is always asking you if you want to go far when you guys are hanging out. They are being pigs. Always tell the guy that you not comfortable doing something, and if he doesn't respect you or what you have said. . . THEN DUMP HIM. Or don't hang out with him. He wouldn't be worth it. When i talk to my boyfriend, he always sends me sweet texts like, "hey did you get home safe baby girl" if we are hanging out. or "good-night baby, i hope you sleep well and i will see you tomorrow." it's the little things that count. Guy's are horn dogs, and they really want some things you shouldn't give away, and if he doesn't respect it, tell him he better or you are going to leave him. For example: My ex boyfriend was like if you love you will have sex with me, and i was like i guess i don't love you. Guy's shouldn't care what you look like or what your wearing. [Well they should a little] but they should tell you you are beautiful. :] i hope this helped you! -allie! I'm a guy. Most guys won't lead you on. If you think guys will lead you on, you need to find a new group of people to hang out with. I, personally, would never lead any girl on.