Love can be a heartache at any age and since your boyfriend told you he did not feel the same about you he means he does not love you (perhaps likes you) and that is not your fault, but you will have to accept it. As heartbreaking as it is sometimes women of all ages may have one or more boyfriends in their lifetime thinking they are the right person for them when, in fact, they are not and this means you just have not met that special person that should be in your life. With every breakup from a boyfriend there is a grieving period much like losing a loved one to death and that is normal. It's normal for the person still in love to remember the good times they had together and also, some blame themselves for the breakup when often the chemistry simply is not there between the two people. Steady dating and marriage are a risk and we all hope for a successful relationship and the couple should work at it, but there are times a person simply chooses the wrong person. If your boyfriend has not broken up with you at this point then tell him if he does not love you as you love him then you are breaking up. If you have broken up then take your time to a degree and then get out with friends and back into the dating circuit so you will free yourself up to meet that special person in the future.
