What was a spartan wedding night ritual?

It was the hardest life anybody could have. All the Spartans did from age 5-21 is train for war. At age 7 the spartan boys were taken to the Agoge to train for war, they would fight each other train all day everyday, the girls would run for stong babies and learn about life and train also for war. After the boys turn 18 they would have to kill a helot (a slave) to pass there training. After they finish there training they immediately go into the barraks for war