What is the label you should get when you are guy but want to be a lesbian girl and you are into BDSM and how unusual is that at the age of 16?

My VERY brief answer--

1. gender dysphoria. google that. Ask yourself WHY do you want to be a lesbian girl?

how long have you had the interest?

2 About BDSM: I would wonder how much you know and have experienced regarding BDSM.

Being 16...it seems you have your sex hormones flowing intact---so sexual awareness is in you---but the ability to see the bigger picture is NOT there---since you do not have enough life experience---or wisdom or experience (no matter how much you THINK you have..you'll have more experience at 26 and 56!) than you do now!

Call the SFSI San Francisco Sex Information Helpline--or another similar place--to help you. Read more books on ALL these topics!!