Is being a lesbian normal at 13?

Only , if it is truly a genetic situation. If it is due to depression, loneliness, finding a solace and to be hide away from society, then it is certainly not... and how about parents and family of such child... they just cannot justify this within them and outward with the society. Hence it is not normal .. It its painful because parents get confused as to how and how long such relationships will last ... and what about the child in her older age ?