What does Elroy Berdahl do to help the narrator make up his mind?

Elroy Berdahl helps the narrator, Tim O'Brien, by providing him with a safe and quiet space to reflect on his decision about whether to go to war or flee to Canada. By offering him a job at his fishing lodge and showing him kindness without judgment, Elroy creates an environment where the narrator can confront his fears and feelings. Their conversations, along with Elroy's silent support, allow the narrator to grApple with his internal conflict, ultimately leading him to make a difficult choice about his future.