- There is no sure way to know if your spouse will cheat again or not. Sometimes people will cheat once and will never do it again while others will cheat more than once. Signs that your husband may be trying to make your marriage work is spending more time with you; perhaps taking you out for dinner; to a movie; being more affectionate towards you and your sex life improves. If he tells you where he is going and approximately what time he will be home (that's just respect towards you and you should do the same towards him.) Let him know if you catch him cheating again that will be the end of the relationship and then leave it at that and don't keep bringing the subject up. It's a risk, but often the risk is worth it. He will have to earn your trust and that could take some time, but don't keep punishing him for his indiscretion because it will drive him away from you. Show affection towards him and try to have some fun together. If at all possible try to get away for a romantic weekend.
ANSWER:
Wow! I wish I knew, I wouldn't have divorce him, but I did and now his a lonely middle age man with nothing.
