How does Capulet's attitude now differ from his attitude when Paris first came to ask for juliets hand in marriage?

When Paris first asks for Juliet's hand Capulet says that she is too young to marry and he should wait two years. He even says that even if he agrees, the final say belongs to Juliet. He later holds a dinner saying basically that Juliet is one of many beautiful ladies. It is uncertain as to whether he wanted Paris to find someone else to marry or if he was just being a modest father. After Romeo's death, Juliet is told that she is to marry Paris and if she refuses then she can tell her father if she dares.