At 14 you passed puberty, but your body is still growing. Some young girls develop breasts and curves faster than others, but that doesn't mean you won't blossom out one day soon in the future. You might feel because you have a boyish figure your mind is working overtime and you feel when you look in the mirror you look like a boy. It is normal to feel this way and young people are always in a rush to grow up and develop as soon as possible. Be patient ... you have heard of 'The Ugly Duckling that turned into a swan.' This does not mean you are ugly at all, just impatient.