How do you increase your sexual urge?

Try watching a movie with a lot of sex in it, or a soft porn with some kind of plot. Just because it seems too simple to me to just watch a porn and be ready. And I don't think your partner would feel very good about themselves if you had to watch a hardcore porn to want to have sex with them.

The root cause of low libido is often Low Testosoerone, you can have yours checked by a simple blood test. There are many over the counter products that say they can increase your testosterone, but most dont work well. Your Dr can prescribe a testosterone suppliment for you & that will increase your libido.