How can you win back someone you love after they left you due to you accusing them?

You should have thought about winning this person over when you were going with them. I just answered a post a few moments ago with the same question you have just asked. I suggest you sit down and figure out who you are and where you want to go in your life. We all need to improve on ourselves until the day we die. You are no different. We are also entitled to make mistakes, so I really hope you actually SEE your mistakes and tell her how you are starting to change. You just might get lucky. When something is precious in your life and you don't give it care, love or nurture it, it's simply withers away or walks away! Good luck Marcy Sit him/her down, and acknowledge your mistake and tell him/her what measures you are going to take to make sure that it does not ever happen again. Let him/her know that you know that you have hurt him/her but you are willing to do whatever it takes to mend the hurt. Then give him/her space. If he/she loves you he/she will return.