If a man is a model shaves his legs dresses with tight clothing he is a chef but he is not very neat and says that he likes women is he really gay or may he be a bisexual?

being gay has nothing to do with shaving legs, tight clothing or being messy or clean. For each of these characteristics, there is a straight person AND a gay person having the same characteristic. There is no way to "know." There are people who are bi and don't realize it, there are people who are gay and can't admit it. There are people who we think are gay but as heterosexual as anyone else around is - they just act different from what we expect.