Why is life so tough?

Life is painful or life is beautiful depending on the way we live life. If we plant seeds of pain, then we will receive fruits of pain appearing in the garden of our life. But if we plant seeds of happiness and peace then our life will be peaceful, blissful. Yes, life is what we make it to be. Therefore, if our life is painful, we can change. But if you keep on doing what you are doing, you will keep on getting what you are getting. Therefore, if your life is painful, stop, reverse your actions, reverse your philosophy, change, transform, find out the true purpose of life, realize we are not this body and mind that experiences pain. Overcome the agony of the ego which we are not, realize we are the Divine Soul and live in bliss.