How do you not get drunk fast but still drinking at a party but not sipping?

The key Word is MODERATION. Nurse or sip drinks; don't gulp or "slam" them, and limit yourself to 1-2 drinks an hour. Alternate alcoholic drinks with non-alcoholic ones (like water or soda). Don't drink on an empty stomach; starchy foods (like potato dishes) can help slow absorption of alcohol into the bloodstream. Most importantly, allow yourself time to sober up before you get behind the wheel of a vehicle.