Love is about loving someone more than yourself and any good relationship is about making some serious decisions in order to be together. With most problems there is always an answer even though that answer may not be exactly what you or your partner felt it should be. However, if you truly love someone then sacrifices will have to be made throughout a lifetime and if you can't come to some agreement on this problem then it is better to part ways. Between the two of you someone is not telling the truth because if you love someone more than life itself both would be willing to make it work.
