Is it ok to love peeing in your pants?

No, generally. Peeing your pants isn't very sanitary. It's also not healthy to hold it in. So the best thing to do is to avoid getting into situations where you need to go so desperately that those are your only two choices. If that does keep happening to you, then you need to rearrange the way you handle your time and tend to your bodily needs. If you find that you regularly can't control your bladder, you may be suffering from a condition called Urge Incontinence, but that doesn't sound like what you're asking. It sounds more like you occasionally find yourself in a situation where you really need to pee and can't, either because you're not near a bathroom or because someone won't let you use one. If it's because you're not near a bathroom: if you can't wait, and are in pain, and are outdoors, find a tree or bush (women will need more privacy unless carrying a device like a "Freshette") and do it there. If you're indoors, find a container if possible. If there is a toilet nearby but someone won't let you use it, leave if you possibly can and find another one, and stay away from that person. If your teacher or employer regularly puts you in this position, you need to find a way to advocate for yourself because that is abusive and shouldn't be happening. And if all else fails, and you have no other alternative, letting yourself pee your pants is rarely going to result in your arrest and execution. Be aware that when your bladder let's go against your will, it won't empty all the way, so if it does happen, you must give in all the way. Then get away as soon as you can to change.