How do you give your girlfriend oral?

You shouldn't try to get her to do it..if she doesn't want to then let it be

I hate to say this but a lot of women now days can be extremely selfish, lazy and spoiled. Of course so are a lot of men. Many women love it if you perform oral sex on them and make them feel good but they think it's horrible and disgusting to return the favor and make you feel good. Actually, there are a few girls who love to suck a guy but unfortunately not many. You could try and talk to her about it. Ask her why she doesn't like to do it. If you wash or shower first it can help which you should do anyway. You could try negotiating with her. Do something she wants you to do but you hate as a compromise. A lot of women once they get over the idea it's disgusting can actually learn to like doing it. And like everything it gets better and easier with practice. One reason women don't like to do it is it can be hard to do for any length of time, their jaws get tired especially if they aren't use to doing it. Let her sit or lay there and you do all the work. That both feels good and is easier for her. Licking can sometimes feel as good as sucking especially the front part of the penis and it is easer for her to do. Also, if she holds the bottom of your penis with her hand it can keep it from going to deep and gag her. Selfishness is the reason, the whole reason and nothing but the reason most relationships utterly and completely fail now days, not just in the bedroom but everywhere else in a relationship. Of course to be fair it isn't just woman who are selfish - men can be extremely selfish in other ways. And I must mention cheating, which is the ultimate act of selfishness, especially if you have kids and you risk breaking up a family! A relationship is a partnership just like a business -- It can't be all me me me! It takes work and sometimes includes doing things you don't like; such as cleaning toilets and taking out the trash. Negotiate and try to come up with solutions to your problems. Don't hold in resentments, discuss the things that are bothering you, you may be afraid to say something because you don't want a fight but the longer you hold it in the worse it will be Don't discuss things when your mad but calm down first. Don't scream, yell and insult each other, talk calmly, maybe have someone (an impartial person) to mediate but you two need to learn how to do this on your own. If one or both partner refuses to reason on this or any other subject the relationship is likely doomed.