How can you be goth and emo at the same time?

wear gothic clothes, and have emo hair and make up.

You can not be emo and goth at the same time. Whoever said that you could, or even implied that you could, is wrong. No offense ment by that. The best thing to do is be yourself, and don't go by stereotypes. People call me goth all the time, but I'm just me. So if you want to wear goth and emo style clothing, make-up, etc, then do both of them and be your own unique self.