Can I force a hotel in NYC to send me security footage to prove someone broke into my hotel room despite the hotel denying it and insisting no one did?

Generally, a hotel is not legally obligated to provide security footage unless required by law enforcement as part of an investigation. You can request the footage, but if the hotel denies your request, you may need to file a police report to escalate the matter. Consulting with a legal professional may also help you understand your rights and options in this situation.