What should be the attitude of people about death of their loved ones?

When we lose a loved one we seem to lose a part of ourselves. Sometimes it's like losing a limb if that person was very close to us. It is natural that we should grieve their loss but Christians who lose other Christians know that the loss is temporary. I know that my wife who has cancer has accepted Jesus as her savior and that since I also have accepted Jesus as my savior, we will both be with the Lord when we leave this earth. I am sad that when she passes I will miss her but at the same time I will rejoice that all her suffering will be over and she will be in paradise and will get to see Jesus face to face. If the loved one that passes does not have Jesus as their savior, then sadly they will not go to heaven. This causes me great saddness because God does not anyone to go to hell. He wants all to be saved but it is up to us.