How do you make your boyfriend sleep with you without telling him you want to lose your virginity?

You cannot make your boyfriend sleep with you anymore than he can make you sleep with him; it's his decision ultimately and his body and being he is making the decision for.

If you cannot be honest with him about your reasons for wanting to have sex with him, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him; no one wants to find, in the end, the reason a person had sex with them was grounded in deceit and lies.