What do you most want to get out of life?

You don't want anything in particular. If you have a goal, yes, you set your whole life towards achieving it. But then once you've achieved it, you feel empty.

You just want to make the most of every day : there aren't any good or bad situations.

There is the situation at hand, and you turn it into something worthwhile. You should pitch your beliefs toward peace, respect, tolerance, and happiness. Don't dwell on past wrongs. You can't change them and must face the consequences of your acts, dire as they may be. Learn from them. Decent people will give you the benefit of the doubt. You don't need the ones that don't.

Don't try to control everything, just to turn it so that everyone comes out better than they were when they went in. You need to ask yourself why you would hate anyone. Pity those who take pleasure in others pain and sadness. It reflects badly on them. And you? There is no rule. Do what you think is right, not what is easy.

And always try. Try to be kind. Try to be generous. Try to be forgiving. Most of all, try to love. You always will be loved in return.