Why are people misfits?

It is my opinion that people who grow up in confinded environment may need to rebel. People who lack social skills or were not taught any have a difficult time socializing with society. Another common factor is that people may crave attention or in most cases have not experieicned love. They may also of been abbused verbally or physically. People choose to be different in many ways and i respect that however you dont have to flaunt it because it just screams "look at me - nobody loves me" which is said. They need the attention and dont know how else to get. They may also lack empathy which or completley shut down emotions. They have a hard time relating to other people because they are so busy being different.