Why Am i turning gay?

Gayness, or homosexuality, just like straightness, or heterosexuality, is an inborn characteristic called "sexual orientation." Numerous studies have pointed to a biological if not genetic origin for sexual orientation. In other Words, you are born with your sexual orientation.

whoever said this is wrong. you cannot be born homosexual, you can be raised homosexual but not born it. you become homosexual by finding someone you love or are in love with and they happen to be the same gender.

All right, everybody go to your corners. You're both right . Studies are now beginning to provide more supporting evidence for a ' biological imperative ' . What the final causation of this imperative is , is yet to be determined. And , yes , you may not ever think you are homosexual. and find a person who is so your ideal that you would fall in love with them no matter if they were same-sex or not. We'll leave moralizations and religious views out of this one . As a dear gay male friend of mine said to me, " I don't dislike women, I just love a man, " This man had wonderful personal relationships with all the women in his life, family, friends , and co-workers. This was not a choice for him, it was just who he was.