How do you write a sympathy letter for the loss of my sister in-laws mother?

* Grieving is an individuals journey alone and there is nothing you can say at a time like this to mend the sadness and loss your sister-in-law is going through, so buy a nice card with a simple or elaborate verse and before you sign your name put 'if there is anything I can do please just call me. I am here for you.' MEAN IT! After a week to ten days have passed you could phone your sister-in-law and ask how she is doing. Let her talk and express how she feels and just listen.