Why do black women hate it when white women date black men?

Answer 1

They are not, at least not a large amount of them. Being jealous is something that almost all women are going to experience of other women, regardless of race.

Answer 2

I think it is complete opposite. White women want to be cool like black women. Many listen to black female singers or epitomize female actresses/models. Many white women cannot even stand their pale skin color and regularly use fake tan lotions to look closer to black women in color. Although, most only come out looking fruity orange.