Best place to have an affair?

Seriously? Either divorce or end your first relationship FIRST. Don't purposely hurt someone you once cared for that way. They don't deserve it. Nor does any new relationship - it can go nowhere

• but that's your point, isn't it? You don't want it to? Then go

get a hooker and PAY FOR IT. But still, be an adult and end your your relationship - as it appears you don't want to be in one in the first place.