What are four benefits of having high self esteem?

If you're a girl, the only person gaining the benefits is the guy who's trying to have sex with you. When you have low self-esteem, you'll let anyone do anything to you because it gives you that sense of "Oh! He likes me. That means he finds something about me intriguing. He's doing this because he genuinely cares/wants me." With having low self-esteem, you want to be drooled over so you let them have what they want, even if you're not satisfied. Misery loves company, doesn't it?