In most jurisdictions, legally, the child has to be at least 18 years old to choose who they want to live with.
However, in the case of disputed custody, a child almost always has a voice in the proceedings to decide where he or she should live. While a court is not bound to accommodate the child's wishes, the older the child, the more weight his or her opinion carries.
A teenager is normally able to express and discuss preferences and reasons why one parent is a better choice than another. Unless there are compelling reasons to go against the wishes of a teenager, the court will frequently accept those wishes and grant a custody or residence order accordingly. This is completely in line with the court's obligation to make a decision that is in the best interests of the child.
It is important to remember that every court and every case is different.
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