Your boyfriend says you do not pay enough attention to him when you are around other people This is not intentional but he is very hurt by it What can you do since he is upset at you?

In a case like this, you have to compromise with the boyfriend. Apologize and let him know you really mean it. Tell him it wasn't intentional. If the boyfriend is stubborn about it, give him some space but let him go in a nice way. Something like "Baby I'm sorry i didn't realize i wasn't paying attention to you. I didn't mean to upset you."

If the boyfriend is stubborn, say something like this, "Okay baby I'll let you go. I don't want this to turn into some big fight. I hate our fights. I really am sorry though. Mkay, ill talk to you in a few to see how you're feelin."