In many cases a marriage can be saved if the couple realize the problems in their marriage, but when a husband says there is no hope this could be an indication that he simply does not want to try and save the marriage. Communication is the biggest thing in any relationship so sit down with your husband and ask if he would consider seeing a Marriage Counselor with you and hopefully he will. However, a large percentage of men do not like to air out their private lives to any counselor (perhaps it makes them feel less of a man) or fear of being accused that he is the problem in the marriage. Explain to him that the counselor is not there to cast blame on either of you, but get to the root of the problems and give you both the tools to deal with problems that rise up in any marriage. If your husband refuses to try then risk kicking him out of the house and tell him he has his freedom and unless he wants to try to save the marriage you will file for divorce. Perhaps each of you getting some space from each other will clear up how you truly feel about each others because sometimes 'you can't see the forest for the trees.'
