Is it flipping or flicking you off?

"Flipping you off" and "flicking you off" both refer to the gesture of raising the middle finger as a sign of disrespect or annoyance, but "flipping you off" is the more common phrase. "Flicking" typically suggests a quick motion, while "flipping" conveys the act of turning the hand to display the middle finger. In casual conversation, people usually say "flipping you off."