What should you do if you can't have your birthday this year because my mums is the weekend before and my dads the weekend after?

The beauty of birthdays is that there's always *someone* who has a birthday before or after ours, or even on the same day! That doesn't mean you "can't have your birthday" though! Talk to your parents about how you might have a special day or event, even if it isn't on the day of your birth.