What should you do if you are gay but you hate other gay guys?

I'd like to offer my two cents. As a gay man, I'm not attracted to effeminate men. And, often they are the ones that stick out. Men that act like men are far more attractive. So, don't worry about not liking the flamers. There are more guys out there that don't lisp, don't "adore" Liza or work in a salon. Relax :-)