Is there a common reason your fiance will not set a wedding date after 2 years of engagement Both in your 40's no kids no ex-spouses financially set?

Have you heard the phrase, "why buy the cow when the milk is free?"

It sounds like you two could benefit from professional counseling. Or, if your fiance will not cooperate, you could benefit from professional counseling as you have already expressed concern over the situation.

I understand where you are coming from since my fiance and I have been engaged since September 30th, 2011. He says that he wants to get to know me better.?! I thought he knew me well enough to get engaged to me but I guess not. I have been married before and he has not. Maybe it is to keep you satisfied for 2 more years then talk about a date again? I wish you the best of luck. It sounds to me like it is an excuse.