If you want to take a trip with someone your having an affair with how do you do it without your mate getting suspicious?

Tell your mate that you are going on a business trip for sometime. Then enjoy your time with your affair mate. Dress up in a nice suit or dress to make sure he or she dont'doubt you. If you dont have a job, tell your mate that you are going out to look for one. Dress up nice. And don't look excited. Look as if you are hopeful. When you come back, act as if you did not get a job. You'll never regret it.