How can a man be sexually intimate with two women under false pretenses when he cheats on you with an ex?

Some men (and women) can juggle more than 2 - 3 people in their lives. These types of people are ego-maniacal, selfish and inconsiderate of the other person(s) feelings. You are an "enabler" by allowing him to get away with this behavior and his ex is no better than he is. Get some pride girl and gift wrap this sucker and send him packing to his ex! With my first marriage (I was 24) I found out my husband was not only cheating on me, but his mistress (which he ended up marrying.) His mistress phoned me while I was still living with my husband and there he sat (the pompous ass) thinking two women were going to fight over him. He was in for a rude awakening because I told her I had nothing to discuss with her and that I was tying a big red bow on his butt and she could have him! After that I kicked my husband out of our suite and divorced him and moved on. I make it sound simple, but it left me feeling that I wasn't good enough for him; that I'd let him down in some way; I wasn't attractive enough and one day I gave my head a shake and realized I had nothing to do with it. If he hadn't cheated on me it would have been someone else. I learned from that experience I had and only grew stronger in character. It's important that the person you are with deserves your love because it's a precious commodity and that you are treated with respect if you give it. You should be able to trust them, discuss your fears and good news. Two people should be able to share almost everything in their lives and love is the feeling that together you can deal with anything the world has to dish out to you. If you don't expect better for youself then no one else will think you deserve better. It's time to move on hon. Good luck