Do women know that being demanding can be a major turn off for men?

Some women know but there are many who don't and there are many, many women who get away with it because their husband/boyfriend lets them do it! Compromising and expressing wishes are the way it should be in my opinion, but there are many demanding, aggressive, pushy women who only know the Word "demanding" and that is just the way they are. Some men deal with it and some don't but I can't imagine that any men actually LIKE it.