How can you be friends with the one you love if you've just broken up and is it worth staying friends even though it hurts that you can't have her or should you not talk but you don't want to lose her?

My hurting friend, I am a disabled Nam vet with many scars on my heart from the exact thing you speak of. Because you care, there is no "cure", but I found the best I could do is maintain the frindship from a distance for a while, and kindle a new "Love" with someone else. That is the only thing that will push the hurt out of your heart. If your Friend is truly a friend, they will be happy that you are happy. Much luck and God bless you.