How do you dominate a woman in bed?

ok, i am a girl myself and most girls hate it when u try 2 b all sexual and stuff, and we loathe it when u try 2 b something or someone ur not just b ur slef, its the best way 2 get a girl, we like it so much better and it will b so much easier on u guys, i dont want 2 sound rude but...its the truth lol i hope i helped u a little!