How do you accept a nonvirginal wife?

Many people in the modern world are not virgins when they first marry; it is an accepted part of life in a lot of the world and just involves getting on with life without treating the fact as anything different from the normal. If you are in one of those areas where a non-virgin wife is not usually accepted, then this is a culturally instilled part of you. Accepting such a person will be hard for you to do, and this is something that nobody else can decide for you. Ask a number of people you trust, such as clerical leaders or teachers, to provide a range of advice.