When couples of all ages first meet they are infatuated with each other and it is through time that they truly get to know each other and that infatuation often turns into love. A man who is infatuated generally treats his girlfriend like a china doll; it is important for him to show her off to others while a man in love simply loves the girlfriend and it shows in their eyes. A man in love is proud to be with her; encourages her and is there through thick and thin; enjoys being with her and having some laughs; is a good listener and is honest and loyal to her. Some men that are in love may buy gifts off and on, but if he doesn't it still doesn't mean he doesn't love that person.